The Power of Shapewear

How it's changed my wardrobe and confidence

It’s inevitable. As we navigate through our 40s, our bodies undergo changes. And for me, those changes haven’t been all that welcomed.

I’m slower than ever, more sluggish than before, and my body hurts from just waking up in the morning.

Yet, as my body softens, boobs sag, and energy lowers, I know that the essence of my confidence has to remain timeless. Because without my confidence, what do I have?

Enter: Shapewear.

Shapewear has emerged as a silent hero in this chapter of my life, revolutionizing what I have left of any self-assurance.

I had never owned any Shapewear until a couple of months ago. But in true 2000’s fashion style, I’ve always layered a tank top under every shirt. So, I finally decided to try something new and upgrade to Shapewear.

I splurged on three tank tops and two pairs of high-rise underwear.

I bought from a brand on the lower to mid-range price. I wanted to try it out first before deciding if I was going to upgrade to more expensive name brands, because these pieces can get pricey. And you know what? I’m pleasantly surprised, and don’t feel the need to buy anything else. These ones work just fine for what I need and are comfortable to wear all day, every day.

I bought true to size according to the size chart and feel really comfortable in them.

Now, shapewear serves as a foundation for all of my outfits. I usually throw on a tank top that gives me enough support to hold up the ‘gals while also providing a smooth enough canvas that enhances what I have left of a silhouette.

I usually layer this under an oversized pull-over sweater or linen button up blouse with leggings, for everyday wear.

Not having to wear a bra, and feeling more secure with my tummy tucked away, gives me effortless choices for everyday wear.

On the rare days (nights out) that I wear something more low-cut and need an extra lift, I can trade out my tank top for a more supportive bra and wear the high-rise underwear.

The high-rise underwear is just another practical solution for common concerns, including smoothing out my long-term post-baby rolls and taming my mid-life love handles.

I’ll even go as far as to say that shapewear has helped give me a healthier body image. Self-acceptance doesn’t seem as hard when I know there’s something I can easily do about my flaws. I still want to look and feel good at any age, and wearing shapewear and helped me do that.

Rather than striving for an unattainable standard of perfection, shapewear just gives me that little boost of confidence that I need to get dressed in the morning and keep my shoulders high.

So, go ahead, invest in that piece of shapewear.

And let me know how it goes!